Still lacking
such a positive and potentially exciting
word as bachelor, single women are relegated as oddities, mistakes,
unfortunate defaults in hetersexual system where we are born to couple
and reproduce. Although feminist gains have granted a certain degree
of acceptance of single women, there is an assumption that the choice
must be cloaked in some lack. Why would anyone want to be single? This
negative situating of women's choices to not couple is fostered by the
popular, incessant and mythic stories of romantic love the media provides
us with. A constant barrage of prods to fall in love, advertising, television,
movies, and music create an ongoing hypnotic love-wash providing us
with what we come to believe as the reality and necessity of love.
We fall in love with the notion of falling in love, an obsession similar
to my dog trying to catch his tail. With lyrics taken from the popular
cinderella (she's not only poor but now a prostitute) movie "Moulin
Rouge," All You Need is Love juxtaposes the scripted and canned
quality of how we define and identify love with imagery of purposeful
destruction of one of the most prevalent symbols of female [re]productivity,
the egg. Empowered to choose or not to choose to couple, women make
choices despite the dominant stories of love triumphing all. Fully regaled
in feminine dress, aware of the limited supply of eggs, and deliberately
blowing her part of the deal, the main character in All You Need is
Love daily works toward a different type of productivity.